If sex is the music of life, communication is its rhythm. If these rhythmic chords are not reverberated in harmony what happens is cacophony.
Conveying your heart to your partner sounds pretty easy but in result it seems to be quite hazardous. But keep in mind, in spousal circumstances we can surmount this imbroglio by the effective use of these techniques which we all know.
The 3 T’s, Talk-Tackle-Trigger
Talk! Talk! Talk!
Talk is not affected in the peripheral sense position but it can be computed in a deeper plain where we can categorise into 2-verbal & non-verbal.
Actions speak louder than words!
When communication seems to be in a stagnant position, non-verbal talk is more effective.
Signs & symbols
We all, knowingly or unknowingly show certain gestures to attract or draw attention of the partner when at high. Identifying those sensual gestures is the key. To name a very few sensual gestures, we fall into seemingly unknowing nudges, alluring hugs, bewitching messages, employing an extra make-up, clad a special night ware, a lustfully haunting perfume, a drowsy glance, spreading a flower studded bed etc …
Navigate through ‘those clues’
Your partner will be aroused by touching or caressing specific spots of their body. Intentionally or unintentionally they’ll be guiding you to go right there. Just navigate through those clues which your partner shows, like the sounds they make or from their facial or physical expressions you can understand what type of touch or stroke is making the graph shoot up.
When it comes to more obligatory category namely verbal communication, it must be executed in a ‘professional way’.
This verbal pronouncement dissolves all inherent inhibitions of the partners which in effect transform their clumsy silence to electrifying conjugation.
Delivering the talk in a positive manner is the trick.
Instead of using ‘don’t you can use ‘do’s. But the do’s you use should be capable to convey your heart. For instance, “I don’t like the way you do……” can be changed to “I really love the way you did that, I think it can be even more erotic if we do it…….”.
Emulating your feelings in an appealing manner can work wonders in the spousal heart of your partner.
Don’t Add insult to injury
Use of negative comments or teasing especially related to the body parts or performance can hurt your partner. Those harsh words can destroy your whole intimacy and may imprint depression that cannot be reinstated by any.
Open talks and experimentations
Even in a long lasted relationship partners feel reluctant for open talks and experimentations. This sort of experimentations, innovations and methodology transforms the dull, colorless, mind-numbing life to a bright, colorful and mind blowing life.
Tackle it in your way!
In order to attain this position partner should be placed in a comfortable stand where he/she can execute an open, fearless, shy less talk.
To tackle the prosaic life the partners had encountered so far, he/she can seek the help of fun talks, pillow talks, dirty talks, or sharing fetish thoughts or fantasies etc, which are all the hidden forms of verbal communication.
Build up relations not only in the sexual perspective, instead it warms up the interpersonal relationships of the couples. You can transform your partner or better half to a best buddy by conversing with him/her the way you do it with your friends studded with funs, wits etc. If this effort succeeds then the ‘Fun is Forever’ and you’ll be the luckiest best half.
Between partners can definitely convey those extra feelings or thoughts or likes. Utilize it to the maximum to understand your partner.
Are yet another erotic way to know the heart of your love. During foreplay or even as the kick start for the play the partner can seek the help of this which could enhance the rhythm and tempo.
Fetish thoughts or high voltage fantasies
Usually hamper the smooth flow of a contented sexual life. But in mild doses they can induce a stimulation which eventually generate sort of innovations or novelty which track different paths to the sexual cohabitation that can help the couples to get a strong bondage.
Amp up your mood: A romantic stroll with your partner in the evening, a goose talk in the kitchen, a late night drive, all this can trigger the inherent sexual fervor which produce unbelievable results in the conjugal life.
A complete sharing of your feelings with your partner results in a high end, soulful satisfaction which amp up your wholesome mood catalyzing the sexual play.
Practice makes man perfect
To be honest, sex can be considered as the biggest parameter for a blissful life. To attain this blissful life, we must know and practice this incredible art. Sex generates from the heart and transmits to the heart. It collages the art of love.
Don’t hesitate to SPEAK your he’Art of LOVE’ to your partner.
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